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The Activation and Restoration of Shame in an Intimate Relationship: A First-Hand Account of Self-Injury

dc.contributor.authorGunnarsson, Nina Veetnisha
dc.date.accessioned2021-07-29T15:42:09Z
dc.date.available2021-07-29T15:42:09Z
dc.date.issued2021-04-30
dc.identifier.urihttp://hdl.handle.net/11089/38415
dc.description.abstractThis paper is grounded in a first-hand account of my own experiences with self-injury and shame. By using my personal diary entries as support for this account and a sociological framework of shame, I explore the process of shame and shame reactions in an intimate relationship. I illustrate how shame was activated by my internalized critical other, how the shame cycle de-stabilized my relationship, and, finally, how shame was restored through the other’s validation and acceptance, or how it led to more shame managed by self-injury. However, this account is not simply about self-analysis, or a need to indulge in my pain; rather, it is an inner dialogue that rests on the commitment to develop a richer understanding of the personal and interpersonal experiences of self-injury and shame. Today, I finally understand how shame works and this has helped me to not get caught up in my emotions. So, although shame may take a hold of me at times, I am no longer, like before, controlled by my shame.en
dc.language.isoen
dc.publisherWydawnictwo Uniwersytetu Łódzkiegopl
dc.relation.ispartofseriesQualitative Sociology Review;2en
dc.rights.urihttps://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/4.0
dc.subjectSelf-Injuryen
dc.subjectShameen
dc.subjectSocial Bondsen
dc.subjectCritical Otheren
dc.subjectFirst-Person Accounten
dc.titleThe Activation and Restoration of Shame in an Intimate Relationship: A First-Hand Account of Self-Injuryen
dc.typeArticle
dc.page.number104-121
dc.contributor.authorAffiliationUniversity of Jönköping, Swedenen
dc.identifier.eissn1733-8077
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dc.contributor.authorEmailNina.Gunnarsson@ju.se
dc.identifier.doi10.18778/1733-8077.17.2.06
dc.relation.volume17


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